Reality I Think

Receiving * First Salary * is very special moment for everyone in their life... This is his first time when you have not demanded it but you have earned it. Person become so much excited and makes plan to do something special and memorable with that income. It was a special moment for me as well. The time when I received my salary for the first time was really emotional moment. I received my first salary in 2nd month. That means I have to wait for more than 2 month two receive my first salary. I and my brother both were working together so we jointly received two month salary which was Rs.12000 in 2010 AD Feb. Though we were paid less but receiving this amount filled us with joy and excitement. On the way to home, we both brother were thinking on things we need the most right now and rest we shall handover to parents. But we could not decide the same. So we called Maa, and explained her everything. She advised us two purchase few things for both of us and 1 for my grandfather as w...

Sindoor Daan and Daughter's Mental Situation  - Experience of My Wife  Marriage is one of the happiest moment of ones life . But most of the time we see daughter are crying . Are they really sad ? What are the thoughts in mind at the time of Sindoor Daan. Lets read what my wife think from her own life experiences.  A girl's major life is spent at her parent's home where she is treated like a princess, she is special for her parent. My father is a caring person but he never shows his love as he is least expressive. It was my vidai time I was crying badly, my dadi said to me that “it's the beginning of your new life don't cry.” I was trying to control my tears, When I turned to my dad he started crying so badly. I have not seen my father crying so badly in my entire life but at this moment he was crying like a baby. I forgot all my emotions and started crying more as it was not bearable for me to see my dad crying.

दिल तो छल्ली हजार बार हुआ  कास आशिकी में हुआ होता  दिल टूट जाता इश्क में अगर तो समझता पागल था में दिल मगर तोड़ दिया बेहता हुआ लहू ने जो अपना ही था  मुझे लगा हम पेड़ के साखाए हैं  तूफानों में टूट कर अलग होगया  ये सोचा की कमजोर था टूटना ही था   समय ने सूखा हुआ लकड़ी बना दिया  फिर आपनो ने ही उसमें आग लगा दिया  थोड़ा दुख तो होगा राख बनते देख कर  लेकिन रोना मत  मेहगा है तेरे आशु भी  खर्च होजाएंगे सूखी टेहनी था झड़ना ही था  हम जल्दी ही सही  हरे थे पर हारा नहीं था  धूप में जलकर सुख गया  सोचा मौसम बदलेंगे हरियाली आएगी फिर से खुशहाली आएगी  भूल गया कि मैं टूट चुका हूं  जमीन पे सुख चुका हूं  तप के सोना नहीं बन पाए  कोयला बन गए  फिर भी किसी के घर भोजन बना  किसी के घर तपन  फिर जब राख हुआ  तो आपके हाथ गंदे होगए और हम आपके लिए कूड़े होगए लेखक- अरविंद कुमार कर्ण

This Mehndi art was designed by Mansi - Student of mine in my marrige ceremony . I was really amazed to see her talent . I was really happy to see her labour . She is very sincere and attentive. 

We know that we enter in different stages of life in our total life span. We born as an infant then we become child , young , middle aged and old at last we die. Yeah , these are common stages of life that we all know ... But my opinion on #STAGES OF LIFE is different. Lets begin.... In my opinion,  Life of all depend up on the situations and condition on which he is borne and carried on . Life stages in which he enters moves parallel or circular depending upon the situations he faces. Some people are borne in rich family some in poor some in slums some are borne orphan These all child has different stage which comes with time . Rich child gets better opportunity and better chance to shape his career but only few get success . May be because he don't get exposer to real life situation. Comfortabilty makes him paralyzed.  Some child utilises opportunities to its extent and gets rewarded. Now lets talk about poor child , poor have less opportunity and gets exposer to worl...

This world knows everything but hides alot . So far i have experienced that we love a girl following this sequence.... 1. Staring at a girl and analysing her beauty, if she is beautiful goto (2nd Step) and if not love story ends.... 2. Try to talk with that girl after gaining some information about her from primary or secondary Source. If her thought and her opinion suits you and your attitude goto (3rd Step)and if not ,if you are honest ,  either  you dump or you will make her timepass..  3. You start spending time with her and start to do chatting late night forgetting everything 🤔Everything Right!! 4. After Some kisses and hugs you want something more than that ....Right!! Absolutely!! 5. Now you try to be physical but girls denys ar the beginning but agrees at last and its human nature because you both enjoy it . Is it good to have physical relation before marriage.....comment... 6. So you have done everything but you are still free to get tied in a knot or skip mar...